Case of Missing Boy in Bellevue, Washington: Does It Pass the Smell Test?

On Sunday, November 6, 2011 at 8am, a mother and her two children allegedly ran out of gas around the 2400 block of 112^thAvenue NE in Bellevue, Washington. Julia Valerie Biyukova claims she buckled her 2 year old son, Sky Metalwala, in his car seat and she and her 4 year old daughter, Mailie, walked to a Chevron gas station about a mile away. Julia claims she returned to the 3-door silver Acura, left on the side of the road, about an hour later and her son was gone.

A look on Google Maps at the intersection at 112^th Avenue shows a few churches in the area, one,Bellewood Presbyterian Church, only about a half mile away. It can be assumed that there would be people at this church preparing for Sunday services, why did she not stop there and ask for help, knowing her young son was left alone?

There are serious questions surrounding the claims by this mother.

• Why take one child and not the other?
• Where was her iphone and why didn’t she use it to call for assistance?
• If she ran out of gas, why did police not find a gas can at the car?
• Why does the mother only lock the driver’s side of the car and not lock the remaining doors when she left her son in the car unattended?
• Why didn’t she wait at the car with her children and flag down another driver? Clearly people stop to help when they see a mother and children in distress.

Sources report that Julia and her husband Solomon Metalwala married in 2003 were going through a divorce, and on her Facebook page she claims to have been awarded primary custody of both children in September, 2010. Even more disturbing is the fact that this couple was cited for leaving Sky then an infant, alone and unattended in a car, the case was dismissed by a judge after the couple agreed to probation, community service and ten weeks of parenting classes. Did Julia Biyukova not learn from that experience? It’s reported that the father has not had contact with the children since January, 2011. In addition, an audio recording we discovered as it relates to facilitating visitation of the minor children dated November 4, 2010 and another dated October 28, 2010 paints a totally different story.

The photo being used on the national news wires of Sky is from the mother’s album, dated April, 2011. She says that he was dressed similar to clothes shown in that photo when she left him strapped in the car seat.

There was no Amber Alert issued which clearly sends another red flag. Did this case not meet the criteria set forth? The FBI has also been brought into the case. It’s being reported that law enforcement spent most of the night in the apartment complex located in Redmond, WA where she and the children lived.

Sadly, this mother’s story, in my opinion does not pass the smell test!

Police would like to hear from anyone that may have travelled along 112th Ave N.E., between SR 520 and NE 24th Ave N.E., Sunday morning between 7 a.m. and 10 a.m.

The missing boy is half Asian Indian and half Caucasian, 2-foot-2 and 39 pounds with brown eyes, a dark buzzcut hair and was last seen wearing a gray hooded sweatshirt and black and aqua blue sweatpants and white socks.

The car is a silver, 1998 Acura Integra three-door coupe.

Anyone who saw these people or this vehicle on November 6 is asked to call (425) 452-2564 or email pdtipline@bellevuewa.gov

Susan Murphy Milano is a staff member of the Institute for Relational Harm Reduction and Public Pathology Education as a educator and specialist with intimate partner violence prevention strategies directing prevention for high risk situations and cases.

A national trainer to law enforcement, training officers, prosecutors, judges, legislators, social service providers, healthcare professionals, victim advocates and the faith based community. In partnership with Management Resources Ltd. of New York addressing prevention and solutions within the community to the workplace.

Online contributions: Forbes : Crime, She Writes providing commentary about the hottest topics on crime, justice, and law from a woman’s perspective, as well as Time's Up! a blog which searches for solutions (SOS) for victims of crime.

Radio Shows: Susan is the host of The Susan Murphy Milano Show, "Time's Up!" . She is a regular contributor to the nationally syndicated "The Roth Show" with Dr Laurie Roth and a co-host on Crime Wire.

Books: Time's Up: A Guide on How to Leave and Survive Abusive and Stalking Relationships,Moving out, Moving on, and Defending Out Lives.

www.imaginepublicity.com

Police Officer arrested for the Murder of Missing Mom Wynetta Wright and Baby Jaylin

You may not have heard about 20 year-old Wynetta Wright (pictured above) and her one year old daughter Jaylin who were reported missing on Tuesday from Hillcrest, MD, and sadly its only now we are because the mother and toddlers bodies were discovered.

This as much about a missing persons case as it is a intimate partner homicides. So many of missing persons cases are related directly to a spouse or former boyfriend. They are always the last person with whom victims have direct contact, and almost always the last ones to see them alive. And it can take years before remains are discovered and even longer for justice. Women and men all victims of intimate partner violence in my opinion,who are still missing; Renee Pernice, Samatha Smith, Lisa Stebic, Patty Vaughan, Hope Meek, Stacy Peterson, Michael Tappley, Billy Smoliniski, John James Morris, Venus Stewert, Brandy Hanna, Star Boomer, Melanie Methanie, Beth Bently and police cadet Kelly Rothwell are among a few who remain on an ever growing list.

The young mother was to be in court this past Tuesday for a paternity and child support hearing. And the evening before she received a call from the child's father to meet with him and talk. They had had no communication since the birth of the baby.

The father and person arrested, Richard Phillips a District of Columbia police officer assigned to the vice-unit working drugs and street crimes. He is now being held without bond and his police powers have been revoked.

The District of Columbia Officer was very married and she likely had no clue of the relationship until the arrest. So he takes matters into his own hands because he is angry with the fact that she is taking him to court for support of the child.

Wynetta died from basically being beaten to death. The one year old child was found still strapped in her car seat Jaylin died from the extreme heat.

In far too many of these cases why does anyone let their guard down and meet someone in a secluded area to talk? It serves no purpose and as in this tragic example, it will get you killed. Wynetta did alert her mother as to where she was going and with whom she would be meeting. In a lot of these cases that does not often happen. Victims do not tell someone where they are going or meeting. Quick police work resulted in finding both mother and daughter. In my opinion, funeral expenses for both mother and child should come out of the officers accumulated retirement money.

In lieu of flowers, the family asks that you please send donations to:

Wynetta & Jaylin Wright Fund c/o Marshall-March Funderal Home
4308 Suitland Road
Suitland, MD 20746
301-736-1616

I cannot stress enough the dangers of ending a relationship and having a plan in place before you announce to the world that you are ending the relationship, going to court or moving on with your life. Tragedy does not have to be the outcome when you are smart and have a solid plan.

f you are in a relationship that has a history of violence, simply mustering up the courage to confront the person and say it is over, without the proper tools, can cost you, your life!

The book "Time's Up A Guide on How To Survive and Abusive and Stalking Relationship" is the prescription, if you will, that every person must obtain before they announce they are leaving. Below is an example from Chapter 4, one of many unique tools provided in the book. It is available on Amazon.com, or you can purchase via e-book or on a cd. If you have questions, the email address is: timesupforjustice@gmail.com

Before you decide that you have had enough and are ending the relationship create for yourself the "Evidentiary Abuse Affidavit" and video (shown below).

If you do nothing else, please take one important step that if something does happen to you, if you do vanish like Stacy Peterson, Vensus Stewart, Rachel Anderson, Susan Powell, Lisa Stebic,Kelly Rothwell or arefound murdered like Monica Beresford-Redmond, Franki Jacobson, Renee Pagel,Summer Inman, and others where the person responsible has gotten away with murder that your voice and record of the abuse will be captured and recorded. Do it for you friends, family and loved ones. Do it for your children. Do it for you!

Evidentiary Abuse Affidavit by Susan Murphy Milano from the Book "Time's Up" from Courage Network on Vimeo.

Susan Murphy Milano is with the Institute for Relational Harm Reduction and Public Pathology Education. She is an expert on intimate partner violence and homicide crimes. For more information visit http://www.saferelationshipsmagazine.com/ She is also in partnership with Pamela Chapman and iAscend Programs. http://pamelachapmanl.biz

Susan is the author of "Time's Up A Guide on How to Leave and Survive Abusive and Stalking Relationships," available for purchase at the Institute, Amazon.com and wherever books are sold. Susan is the host of The Susan Murphy Milano Show, "Time's Up!" on Here Women Talkhttp://www.herewomentalk.com/and is a regular contributor to the nationally syndicated The Roth Show with Dr Laurie Roth. Susan is a survivor- the daughter of a police officer family intimate partner homicide by her father who murdered her mother before committing suicide.

Custody Battles: Before During and After Divorce on The Susan Murphy Milano Show: Wednesday, April 28, 2010 at 4:00 PM EST

Todays guests will be Barry Goldstein is a former attorney and author of the book, “Scared to Leave Afraid to Stay,” and newly released book, "Domestic Violence, Abuse and Child Custody" as well as an advocate for women abused by their partners and sometimes the court system.

And a mother fighting for custody Sharon Executive Director & Radio Show Host and member of the Autism Women's Network will discuss her long and drawn out custody battle fighting for custody of her children.

The number to call into the show with questions or comments is :

1-347-326-9337

Wednesday, April 28, 2010
TIME: 4: 00 PM Eastern Time
3:00 PM Central Time
Show Link: www.blogtalkradio.com/susanmurphymilano

If you miss the show be sure to return to this site where it will re-play automatically through May 5, 2010 or you can down load the podcast by going to the link for the show.

To be considered as a guest on a future show or if you have a subject matter or idea you would like on a topic of interest please email us at murphymilano@gmail.com

Been there, done that…” Susan Murphy- Milano has turned a tired phrase into demonstrable realism through the gift of her newly published book, "TIME'S UP: A GUIDE ON HOW TO LEAVE AND SURVIVE ABUSIVE AND STALKING RELATIONSHIPS