We all agree there is a lot of turmoil when one or both parties are ready to end the marriage and move on. In today's "Time's Up" show we provided a classroom if you will on the pros and cons of mediation v divorce.
My guest Susan Filan, attorney, mediator and Senior Legal Analyst, MSNBC, providing important information from hiring a lawyer to leaving a relationship, both male and females.
Susan Filan does not mince words, “divorce is a financial transaction just like dissolving a business, partnership or corporation. It is mostly a matter of money. But because the partnership was once romantic, and based on the most intimate bond humans can form, its disruption wreaks havoc on human emotion.
But courts are not the place to seek redress for broken hearts, angry feelings, bruised egos, or a desire to punish your departing spouse. Below is the podcast from today's show. I suggest if you want hold onto the green in your wallets, you take the time to listen to the show
"You will pay to get divorced- but how much and to whom is more in your hands than you may realize if you keep an open heart, a cool head, and allow logic and reason, not poison emotion, to prevail."
Moving Out, Moving On will not only save you thousands in dollars, it could very well save a life!
Through clear examination, simple forms and worksheets, Moving out, Moving on , logically takes the reader through all the necessary preparation and information gathering to effectively seek legal redress, protect one’s assets and credit, address considerations regarding children, define alternate living arrangements, and deal with the myriad of financial problems and concerns surrounding a divorce or break-up. Moving out, Moving on, also addresses in detail abusive relationships, domestic violence and stalking and how to safely confront these situations.
Moving out, Moving on , is more than a simple workbook, but a true plan to take control of one’s life and face the future head on. This is not just another “divorce book” written by a so called “expert.” Moving out, Moving on, is authored by a person who truly knows…Susan Murphy-Milano
If you are in a relationship that has a history of violence, simply mustering up the courage to confront the person and say it is over, without the proper tools, can cost you, your life!
The book "Time's Up A Guide on How To Survive and Abusive and Stalking Relationship" is the prescription that every person must obtain before they announce they are leaving. Below is an example from Chapter 4, one of many unique tools provided in the book. It is available on Amazon.com, or you can purchase via e-book or on a CD. If you have questions, the email address is: firstname.lastname@example.org