Showing posts with label victims of stalking and domestic violence helped by new technology. Show all posts
Showing posts with label victims of stalking and domestic violence helped by new technology. Show all posts

Tuesday, April 10, 2012

Memo to the Lifetime Channel: Stacy Peterson is Still Missing

Over the weekend, Lifetime channel re-ran the movie "Untouchable" about Former Bolingbrook cop Drew Peterson, (played by actor Rob Lowe) who is awaiting trial for the murder of his former wife Kathleen Savio, found in a dry bathtub on March 1, 2004.

If you recall it's only when Stacy Peterson is reported missing by her sister on October 28, 2007, that authorities realize her disappearance and Kathleen's "accidental drowning" are connected to husband Drew Peterson.

Viewers searched Google via the Internet after the movie with keywords like "Stacy Peterson Found 2012" to "Was Stacy Ann Peterson ever found."  This blog received ten times the number of visitors within a four hour time period searching for additional information on Stacy Peterson.

The Lifetime Channel should consider each time they repeat the movie "Untouchable" to include links and information on that fact that Stacy Peterson is still a missing person. She needs to be found. And where the public can go to learn about how they can assist. And perhaps consider including the a link to the www.documenttheabuse.com   site.





Tip-line: Illinois State Police

815-740-0678


                                                  
Stacy was silenced in the prime of her life. But there can be no silencing of family and friends who will continue to search for her until she is found. 



 Find out how you can help or offer assistance by going to http://www.ncmissingpersons.org



If you have any information on this case please contact CUE Center For Missing Persons using the contact form below or contact Cue Center at (910) 343-1131 24 hour tip-line (910) 232-1687.


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Tuesday, April 3, 2012

Jamie Fields-Arrington: No Match for Evil

It was Saturday when Jamie Fields headed into town to run errands and have her hair done.  Her husband with whom she was ending her marriage had been threatening and stalking her.

Jamie Fields-Arrington, 33 was a parole and probation officer with the State of Missouri and likely believed her husband was dangerous but not to the point where he'd kill her.  Outside a St. Louis County beauty salon the couple argued.  Marion Lamont Arrington, shot Jamie three times before fleeing the scene.  Jamie was pronounced dead at the hospital.

Earlier today, the coward turn himself into police. Yes, anyone who murder's their wife should be caged up like an animal for the rest of their life.  The actions of those who murder a loved one is no different than a dangerous savage beast. Why he's only been charged with second-degree murder is disturbing.  The prosecutor  can easily add stalking, perhaps upgrade charges to first degree murder (because he had intent to kill) and fleeing the scene of a crime.

The dangers to anyone ending a relationship should be carefully considered when ending a dating relationship or marriage.  The reaction to rejection across the county is costing lives.  In cases where the victim has died her fears during the relationship or marriage remain silent, telling family or friends is considered "hearsay" and it's not enough when the person responsible is finally brought to trial.  As a precaution, victims are encouraged to prepare the evidentiary abuse affidavit and video, also known as the "EAA."  This removes hearsay and in a victims own words provides historical abuse documentation, gives law enforecment and prosecutors a profile on the offender and shows his pattern of conduct prior to the crime should the victim vanish or be killed.


Document the Abuse.Com contains vital information on how the EAA can support each case of abuse from the perspective of the first responders and advocates, to an appearance in court.  It explains the legal benefits to the abuse victim, whether they are able to testify or not, how their words are forever documented and hold up in court, much like a Living Will.

Susan Murphy Milano is a staff member of the Institute for Relational Harm Reduction and Public Pathology Education as a educator and specialist with intimate partner violence prevention strategies directing prevention for high risk situations and cases.

 A national trainer to law enforcement, training officers, prosecutors, judges, legislators, social service providers, healthcare professionals, victim advocates and the faith based community and author.. In partnership with Management Resources Ltd. of New York addressing prevention and solutions within the community to the workplace. Host of The Susan Murphy Milano Show,"Time'sUp!" . She is a regular contributor to the nationally syndicated "The Roth Show" with Dr Laurie Roth and a co-host onCrime Wire. Online contributions: Forbes : Crime, She Writes providing commentary about the hottest topics on crime, justice, and law from a woman’s perspective, as well as Time's Up! a blog which searches for solutions (SOS) for victims of crime

Thursday, February 16, 2012

Playboy Playmate Continues Cycle of Intimate Partner Violence with Marston Hefner

Marston Hefner, 21, beat up his girlfriend, Claire Sinclair, 20, last week in California and she wants Hefner to make a public apology in exchange, she will drop the charges?  Hefner was charged and released on $20,000 bond.

The only reason this crime gained any attention is because the offender, Marston Hefner, happens to be the son of playboy mogul, Hugh Hefner, and Claire Sinclair is Playboy's 2011, Playmate of the Year. Amazing that at 20 she is underage and cannot legally drink, yet, she's old enough to be a Playboy Playmate.

Claire Sinclair wants to drop the charges. That's right, she will not be cooperating with the District Attorney prosecuting the criminal case against Hefner.

According to Huffington Post Joutnalist  David Lohr, in an exclusive interview:

"She cannot just drop the charges. The state does the prosecution," Lt. Phlunte Riddle of the Pasadena Police Department told The Huffington Post. Earlier today, 20-year-old Sinclair told TMZ.com that, while she does not condone domestic violence, she would drop the charges if Hefner apologized. "That is why I will not press charges against Marston Hefner if he keeps his word to give a public apology for physically abusing me on several occasions, and seeks psychiatric help for his anger issues," Sinclair said, according to the celebrity gossip website.



Notice Claire Sinclair is asking for a public apology but also claiming Hefner has physically abused her on "several occasions."  It's likely the other criminal acts of violence towards Claire were privately forgiven. A  common theme shared among intimate partner victims across the country.  Marston Hefner, no different than all serial offenders says, "Baby I'm so sorry, it will never happen again, please baby can you forgive me?"  Sinclair, as most young women her age, responds within 10 seconds and all is forgiven--until the next time and the time after that and so on. Her mindset during the last physical beating was only to scare him, as if  to say "I will call the police this time and press charges." 


At the tender age of 20, Sinclair is a veteran victim of intimate partner violence, continuing the cycle of violence by remaining and not seeking professional counseling services for this very toxic relationship.  And at the very least, Claire Sinclair must create for herself the Evidentiary Abuse Affidavit and video just in case her head hits the ground, accidentally of course.

As with all serial offenders, I call this their "pattern of conduct"  because he has gotten away with violence in the past, Hefner doesn't believe her. Why the hell should he?  All the others times they kissed and made up.   


Sinclair's response to repeated criminal acts against her by Hefner sent smoke signals saying, his behavior was acceptable the first time she was hit.   


If I were going to the craps table in Vegas, I'd wager, if they remain in the relationship, he will repeat his behavior.  The next time she is beaten, the outcome could be very different.


The last time I checked body bags were not a fashion statement!


Susan Murphy Milano is a staff member of the Institute for Relational Harm Reduction and Public Pathology Education as a educator and specialist with intimate partner violence prevention strategies directing prevention for high risk situations and cases.

A national trainer to law enforcement, training officers, prosecutors, judges, legislators, social service providers, healthcare professionals, victim advocates and the faith based community and author.. In partnership with Management Resources Ltd. of New York addressing prevention and solutions within the community to the workplace. Host of The Susan Murphy Milano Show,"Time'sUp!" . She is a regular contributor to the nationally syndicated "The Roth Show" with Dr Laurie Roth and a co-host onCrime Wire. Online contributions: Forbes : Crime, She Writes providing commentary about the hottest topics on crime, justice, and law from a woman’s perspective, as well as Time's Up! a blog which searches for solutions (SOS) for victims of crime.

Monday, February 13, 2012

Ignorance is the Leading Cause of Murder in Intimate Partner Violence


I receive quite a few private emails blasting me for writing the truth after a victim is found dead or murdered and the boyfriend or husband ends their lives in suicide.  People that write or leave comments appearing on the blog, often defending the actions of a killer, is out of pure ignorance of the nature of the crime.  Making excuses such as mental illness, they served in the military, grew up in an abusive household, post traumatic stress syndrome, to a drug and alcoholic problems, the list of excuses is endless.

The mindset of the general public seemingly looks everywhere around a tragedy, except the obvious.  If a man or a woman murders someone with whom they had or have a relationship, it is calculated and premeditated from a state of escalation.  But, to those who profess to know the killers of intimate partner homicide, the reactions to the crime are not realistic from my viewpoint.  Having a bad day, saying the individual was driven to do it, or there is so much chaos in that persons' life is often a justification for the criminal act by those who knew them.  When you make these types of remarks you are defending a cold blooded murderer, whether it be your friend or family member. I do not intend to demean your grief or loss, only to put the crime, and the criminal, in the proper perspective.

Calling out someone, such as myself, tearing them down personally for trying to keep victims and their families alive, is a crime in and of itself.  The pattern of conduct by my police officer father, likely from the moment I came into the world, is no different than those I write about each day.  My father's pattern of conduct was the predictor to her murder and his suicide.  Unless you live behind the walls of daily terror and the unknown, you haven't a clue what it's like to know if you will wake up the following morning.  Intimate partner homicide took away the lives of not only my parents, but my brother, kid sister and me.

Writing about those victims who did not reach out to someone such as myself in time, who did not know to read the information prescribed in the book Time's Up, or were unable to prepare the Evidentiary Abuse Affidavit, is my way to shout to the world that the victims mattered, even in their untimely deaths. My hope is the world will stop closing it's eyes  when innocent children like Charlie and Braden Powell die, whose mother Susan Cox is still missing, and be forced to watch that no more children are blown up out of rage from this world into the next.


I have lost everything to the epidemic of intimate partner violence. Personally, I have nothing left to lose by calling out the bloody truth.

When you aren't part of the solution, you are part of the problem. So, instead of chastising my writing, make it part of your life to prevent the next incident of homicide in your own backyard.


Susan Murphy Milano is a staff member of the Institute for Relational Harm Reduction and Public Pathology Education as a educator and specialist with intimate partner violence prevention strategies directing prevention for high risk situations and cases.

 A national trainer to law enforcement, training officers, prosecutors, judges, legislators, social service providers, healthcare professionals, victim advocates and the faith based community and author.. In partnership with Management Resources Ltd. of New York addressing prevention and solutions within the community to the workplace. Host of The Susan Murphy Milano Show,"Time'sUp!" . She is a regular contributor to the nationally syndicated "The Roth Show" with Dr Laurie Roth and a co-host on Crime Wire. Online contributions: Forbes : Crime, She Writes providing commentary about the hottest topics on crime, justice, and law from a woman’s perspective, as well as Time's Up! a blog which searches for solutions (SOS) for victims of crime. Her new book Holding My Hand Through Hell published by Ice Cube Press will be in book stores in September.

Wednesday, February 1, 2012

Silenced! Stacie DeSantis-Dorego



Last week in Rhode Island, Stacie DeSantis-Dorego, 39 years of age, lost her life to intimate partner homicide.  The details of her murder are too gruesome, even for me to describe.  There was a court order of protection and the former boyfriend has been arrested, charged in her murder.

On January 22, 2012, Johnston Firefighters from IAFF Local 1950 responded to a fire call for help that came too late for Stacie, but not for her surviving children ages 3 & 5.  The firefighters are collecting donations for the care of the children and the information is below on how you can help.

You can also help by spreading the word on the Document The Abuse site.  Had Stacie completed this process of documentation witnessed, notarized  and video, her words would have importance in the criminal case of the person who murdered her.  In memory of Stacie why not consider sponsoring an event, training or books for those, like Stacie, living in fear and silence?  

As the daughter of an intimate partner homicide victim, you can help me, help others, by lending your voice and turning into action.  Time's Up!  Let's End the silence together!

In her own words she writes:

"I write short stories and quotes about life..Our Victories,Our mistakes and everything in between...For the first time I am trying to write about MyLife...That is going to take a while...A mom of 3 children,Mackenzie 14yrs. old,Jake 5yrs old and Lily 3yrs old..Sense Of Humor is so important to me,I Love to Laugh,at the end of the day no matter what that day brought my way laughter was my Valuum..Until recently when my life turned upside down, life's struggles came at me all at once...It's been 9 yrs since my nightmare began and still can not find Stacie...My Personality,My Independence,My Strength and my tool to get threw life..my sense of humor..Gone..Now I am trying to find it,so far the journey has been unsuccessful...I have faith that I will turn up somehow. "




Johnston Firefighters, IAFF Local 1950 



Donations now being accepted for Lily and Jake
The horrific events that occurred on Sunday, January 22, 2012 in Johnston have left two children, ages 3 and 5 without a mother. These events also left our community reeling in disbelief. Johnston Firefighters, wanting to help the family, contacted Cara Mallozzi, a neighbor of the victim who initially reached out to help the children as well as the relatives who are presently caring for them. Cara initially requested clothes for the children; however, she has received an overwhelming response from the community. Currently, the family has informed us that they could use gift cards to Target, Stop & Shop and Walmart. Monetary donations are encouraged and can be made payable toThe Lily and Jake Fund. In response to the tremendous outpouring of support that members of the community have already shown, the Johnston Fire Department has made the Headquarters Station available as a drop off location for donations/gifts. Those wishing to contribute can use the address listed below to drop off or mail donations. This website will update as ongoing contact between the family, community and fire department occur.


The following is a statement from the family of Stacie DeSantis-Dorego:
The family of Stacie DeSantis-Dorego are overcome with the kindness and generosity of the people of Rhode Island. Out of this unfathomable tragedy have emerged angels. Happily we have our niece and nephew with us; however we cannot even begin to imagine what all their needs will be. What we do know is that the support and gifts you are offering will make a difference.
Donations of gifts cards will be used to purchase items that will meet the children's immediate needs. For example cards to Stop & Shop, Dave's, and Shaw's would be helpful in meeting their nutritional needs. In addition, gift cards to Walmart, Target and other major chains will enable us to purchase items for their other needs. Gift cards can be dropped off at the Johnston Fire Department Headquarters.
Many of you have offered to give monetary donations. Please forward all donations to the Johnston Fire Department, c/o The Lily and Jake Fund. 
The love and support of people like you are what is helping us getting through the challenges we are facing each day. It is really important to us that we know who you are. Please include your contact information so that we may thank you.
With gratitude,
The DeSantis Family

If you wish to help, Please drop off or mail donations to:
Johnston Fire Department
c/o The Lily and Jake Fund
1520 Atwood Avenue
Johnston, RI 02919
401-351-1600
Or Click below to donate using a credit card

 


Susan Murphy Milano is a staff member of the Institute for Relational Harm Reduction and Public Pathology Education as a educator and specialist with intimate partner violence prevention strategies directing prevention for high risk situations and cases.

 A national trainer to law enforcement, training officers, prosecutors, judges, legislators, social service providers, healthcare professionals, victim advocates and the faith based community and author.. In partnership with Management Resources Ltd. of New York addressing prevention and solutions within the community to the workplace. Host of The Susan Murphy Milano Show,"Time'sUp!" . She is a regular contributor to the nationally syndicated "The Roth Show" with Dr Laurie Roth and a co-host onCrime Wire. Online contributions: Forbes : Crime, She Writes providing commentary about the hottest topics on crime, justice, and law from a woman’s perspective, as well as Time's Up! a blog which searches for solutions (SOS) for victims of crime

Thursday, January 26, 2012

Sisters of Silence on The Susan Murphy Milano Show -Thursday 2:00 PM Eastern

Thursday, January 26, 2pm ET

Listen LIVE at: Here Women Talk

Daleen Berry a victim of child sex abuse at thirteen, she was forced into a shotgun wedding after her high school was featured on national television for having the highest number of pregnant teens in the U.S. But then Daleen found herself married to a coal miner who kept her barefoot and pregnant. 


By age twenty-one she had four children. Sister of Silence is the amazing story of her personal journey: how she went from being a teen mom to an award-winning journalist determined to break the silence that shatters women and children's lives. 


Daleen Berry, Journalist and Author joins us for the hour.




From Amazon


Kenneth V. Lanning, a retired FBI special supervisory agent who spent more than twenty years teaching about family violence at Quantico, Va., wrote the foreword for Sister of Silence. He says it's "ultimately a story of survival and hope." Dr. Jacquelyn Campbell, a Johns Hopkins University nursing professor and one of the country's leading family violence researchers, calls Sister of Silence "wonderful!" Campbell was the first professor to place the book on her syllabus. SOS is being taught at the University of Louisville; Dr. Jean Shimosaki, LCSW, MSW, a Bay Area therapist, is using it with her patients, as it provides “a step-by-step guide for healing.” SOS took first-place in the Appalachian category at the West Virginia Writers’ Competition, and was banned at Livermore High School in California and removed from library shelves as “Banned Book Week 2011” began. 


It has been featured at “Hope For the Future: Ending Domestic Violence In Families,” hosted by the AIA (UC Berkeley), on The Bob Edwards Show (Sirius XM Radio), and on In A Word, a literary show produced by TV30. The author is a California native who grew up in Preston and Berkeley counties in West Virginia, and went to work at The Preston County Journal. Among her many awards was one in 1990, when she won a first-place award for investigative journalism. In 1997, she worked for The Dominion Post, covering welfare reform. Among her awards are two second-place honors for her 2007 weekly columns in the Cumberland Times-News, one of which was born from SOS. Berry’s articles about Lashanda Armstrong, the mother who drove her van into the Hudson River in 2011, killing herself and three of her four children, appeared online at The Daily Beast. This is what a few people are saying about this book and this author: “Almost never is an interview subject so open or so candid about the most intimate details of the most horrible moments of her life. Daleen is a very brave women and I hope her story will help other girls and women.


usan Murphy Milano is a staff member of the Institute for Relational Harm Reduction and Public Pathology Education as a educator and specialist with intimate partner violence prevention strategies directing prevention for high risk situations and cases.

 A national trainer to law enforcement, training officers, prosecutors, judges, legislators, social service providers, healthcare professionals, victim advocates and the faith based community and author.. In partnership with Management Resources Ltd. of New York addressing prevention and solutions within the community to the workplace. Host of The Susan Murphy Milano Show,"Time'sUp!" . She is a regular contributor to the nationally syndicated "The Roth Show" with Dr Laurie Roth and a co-host onCrime Wire. Online contributions: Forbes : Crime, She Writes providing commentary about the hottest topics on crime, justice, and law from a woman’s perspective, as well as Time's Up! a blog which searches for solutions (SOS) for victims of crime.

Thursday, January 12, 2012

How to Leave a Dangerous Man: Managing Abuse and Leaving with Your Life: The Susan Murphy Milano Show 2:00 PM Eastern Thursday 1/12/2012

Thursday, January 12, 2pm ET

Listen LIVE at: Here Women Talk

Sandra L. Brown, M. A. from The Institute for Relational Harm Reduction and Public Pathology Ed..., and Susan Murphy Milano welcome a special guest to the show who will walk the listeners through the measures taken to keep herself safe and alive.

For a year, she studied the book, “Time’s Up,” line by line, and followed the information contained to the letter, completing the Evidentiary Abuse Affidavit, and leaving her abuser safely.  She offered to come to the show to take the opportunity to explain to listeners the benefits to doing the work involved to live an abuse free life.

If you’re living in an abusive hell, this is a show you will want to make a point to listen to.  BEFORE you announce to your abuser that it’s over, you are leaving, or you are filing for divorce, there are specific steps you must take to manage your safety. Do not walk out with out it!
The Evidentiary Abuse Affidavit (E.A.A.)© is the mastermind process of violence expert Susan Murphy Milano that combines videotaping of an abuse victims’ actual words attesting to abuse, with witnessed and notarized legal documents that successfully satisfy legal hurdles often faced in intimate partner violence and stalking cases.
Document the Abuse.Com contains vital information on how the EAA can support each case of abuse from the perspective of the first responders and advocates, to an appearance in court.  It explains the legal benefits to the abuse victim, whether they are able to testify or not, how their words are forever documented and hold up in court, much like a Living Will.

I'm excited for this empowering show and like you say, keeping yourself 10 steps ahead is the key. i know i speak for others as well, we all pray for a successful survival and you Susan, have given us the tools to do so.
Completing an EAA educates how to stay safe along with taking all necessary steps to properly Document The Abuse. In addition, along with an emotional sense of security, if anything were to happen, the EAA will be in the hands of the appropriate agency for the appropriate actions and justice can be served because all steps to protect your safety and Document The Abuse have been taken. Thank you Susan for dedicating your life to educating and saving women's lives. forever grateful- comment from a survivor.


Wednesday, January 11, 2012

The State of Texas: Victims of Intimate Partner Violence and Homicide Ignored?

On Tuesday Afternoon in a Texas South Welfare Services building, Kimberly Lee Gonzalez, 25, and the mother of three young children was found murdered in a bathroom stall.



In the moments prior, state workers witnessed Kimberly's common-law husband follow her into the women's restroom.  The door of the stall is torn of its hinges.  Workers find Kimberly slumped over and bleeding from the head, barely breathing.  She is rushed to the hospital in Corpus Christi where she dies.  A few hours later husband is arrested on suspicion of murder.

How the heck can it be that employees in a welfare office know this is her common law husband?

Where was the security detail provided by the State in the building when the sound of the metal being ripped from the stall occurred?

Where was everyone at the time she screamed for her life? Is it easier to say no one saw or heard anything for fear of a lawsuit by the family?  If they knew the husband followed her into that bathroom, they also know and heard the fight and piercing screams in that bathroom.

So how can we prevent this from happening in the future?  First, think about the loss of a human life. Three children are now motherless.  The State of Texas will, at the taxpayers expense and because the husband is alive, either plea bargain a deal or go to trial.  This will cost a minimum of $205,000 from taxpayer pockets either way, no one wins.  The price does not include his new life behind bars provided by the State until the day he dies.

Intimate Partner violence costs us all.  In part due to lack of tools and resources, followed by rarely treating these cases as crimes.  Remember, no one came to Kimberly's aide!

Because everything is dollars and cents with human life, consider that for a fraction of what this tragic murder has, and is going to cost, I could have been brought in to the State of Texas, trained everyone in that building and held class (Spanish and English) for recipients in, or suspected of, domestic violence and stalking receiving benefits from social services welfare department.




The training is for Any person who is likely to have contact with victims of domestic violence and the desire to be a point-of-contact for life saving documentation can be trained.
* Law Enforcement* Victim Advocates* Attorneys and Para Legals* Therapists* Domestic Violence Agencies
*Women’s Organizations* Social Service workers*Emergency Room Personnel* Public Health Nurses*911 Responders
*Jails* Court Personnel*Prosecutors/State Agencies* Private Physicians* College Campus Personnel
* Clergy


If you need personal assistance I can be contacted through www.saferelationshipsmagazine.com. 
or by email at murphymilano@gmail.com



 Susan Murphy Milano is a staff member of the Institute for Relational Harm Reduction and Public Pathology Education as a educator and specialist with intimate partner violence prevention strategies directing prevention for high risk situations and cases.


 A national trainer to law enforcement, training officers, prosecutors, judges, legislators, social service providers, healthcare professionals, victim advocates and the faith based community and author.. In partnership with Management Resources Ltd. of New York addressing prevention and solutions within the community to the workplace. Host of The Susan Murphy Milano Show,"Time'sUp!" . She is a regular contributor to the nationally syndicated "The Roth Show" with Dr Laurie Roth and a co-host onCrime Wire. Online contributions: Forbes : Crime, She Writes providing commentary about the hottest topics on crime, justice, and law from a woman’s perspective, as well as Time's Up! a blog which searches for solutions (SOS) for victims of crime.

Tuesday, January 10, 2012

The Sixth Amendment : New Protocol in Cases of Domestic Violence & Stalking



Until now, the standard response for intimate partner violence and stalking from law enforcement has been:

    * Victims are told to report (but action is only taken if you can show evidence of the abuse)
    * Victims are told to go to a shelter
    * Victims are told to get a restraining order (but usually only granted if there is evidence of the abuse)
    * Victims are told to move away (but leaving behind careers, family, and assets)
    * Victims are told to stay with someone else
    * Victims are told stalking is hard to prove and stalking laws are often weak and poorly defined

This response does not help the victim ‘document’ the situations and specifics of her abuse and her abuser. Outside of a police report or restraining order, documentation has still not occurred. In a case of future serious injury, the victim goes missing, or is killed, nothing exists to link her to her story.

Solution: Evidentiary Abuse Affidavit as Historical Abuse Documentation

The E.A.A. has the propensity to document the historical aspects of the abuse and record it to challenge 'hearsay' arguments in a case. By simply following the steps of creating an E.A.A. a victim can provide 'before the event' information that presents the history of her case prior to serious injury, disappearance or death. Click here to read more about how the E.A.A. benefits a victim's case.
 

Problem: Lack of Documentation of Abuser’s Motives, Habits, Risks, History, Weapons, or Location


Abusers, especially those with high lethality risk factors, are those most likely to seriously injure, re-injure, stalk, ignore stay away warnings, child abduct, or kill. These dangerous abusers are not merely low life criminals but can also often be white collar professionals whom from the surface do not look capable of these life-threatening behaviors. Those abusers without former police reports or arrests are likely to lack the documentation of their impending motives behind future acts of violence. His private personal habits are often unknown as is any mental health or other lethality risk factors such as addictions, undiagnosed mental health problems, housed weapons, impulse control problems, prior stalking behavior, or other acts of perpetrated violence.

Solution: Evidentiary Abuse Affidavit as Abusers Profile Documentation

In cases in which no outside documentation exists (no police reports, no shelter visits, no restraining order, no CPS reports), the only historical information about the abuser is often from those closest to him, including the victim.  Partner related assessments of pathological disordered person’s behaviors and motives have been utilized in other settings to help highlight the undiagnosed pathology (see The P-SCAN, Dr. Robert Hare).

Information such as details of how the perpetrator has said he would carry out harming, abducting or killing her can be detailed.  Admissions or comments made to her about other victims the perpetrator has harmed can be listed. Likely hiding places for weapons or evidence can be revealed. Possible alibis that he would make up for his defense (including identification of people who could be the perp’s co-defendants in her harm, abduction or murder).  If the victim has existing scars or active wounds, they can be documented at the time of the E.A.A. creation.
The E.A.A. has the same informational capabilities of providing unknown and unrecognized abuser and stalking risk factors known by the victim.

Problem: No Way to Identify Her Wishes About Her Children’s Placement In Case Their Parent Is a Perpetrator

In high conflict cases, the perpetrator often does not want, and cannot share, custody of their children. Power and control dynamics coupled with pathology is at the core of why they will do anything to not lose custody—including serious injury, abduction or murder.

In cases where the victim goes missing and there is no Last Will and Testament about her desires for the placement of her children and no legal documentation of her abuse by the perpetrator, custody is almost always given to the other parent should she not be present.

Solution: The E.A.A. as a Suggested Custody Placement Tool

The E.A.A. is utilized as a Last Will and Testament during which the victim indicates she is concerned about serious injury, disappearance, or being killed. Naming the perpetrator as the possible suspect will remove the children from his custody during investigation and/or trial. The victim has the ability in the E.A.A. to name where her children should be placed in case of her injury/death and his arrest. This provides a deep sense of comfort that her wishes are made known regarding children’s placement and that she has made efforts to assure they don’t end up in the perpetrators care.

Problem: Abusers Think They Will Get Away With It Because There Is No Documentation So There Is No Deterrent For Their Behavior

Victims who have no documentation of their abuse (through police reports, CPS reports, restraining orders, stalking reports etc.) often have abusers who think that they have future opportunities to abuse because no one knows abuse is occurring. Believing the victim is not likely to report in the future because she has not reported in the past, abusers feel no deterrent for their behavior. The more times an abuser repeats, the higher the risk factors associated with the victim’s serious harm potential. Some abusers believe that even if she did report and he was not arrested, that in the future he will also not be arrested or his battering exposed.

Solution: The EAA as Future Prevention—As The EAA Becomes a Standardized Protocol in Domestic Violence It Teaches Abusers That All Victims Will Get an E.A.A.

We see a future when the E.A.A. becomes a standardized protocol in intimate partner violence and stalking. Not only will victims be readily utilizing the E.A.A. themselves, but first line responders who interact with victims will have as an automatic process, creating an E.A.A. on every victim. Emergency room physicians, paramedics, domestic violence agencies, attorneys and prosecutors, court house personnel, free clinics…anywhere a victim is likely to go. When the E.A.A. becomes standardized as a model of care approach in intimate partner violence, perpetrators will also know that all victims are being offered the E.A.A.

We see a future when the E.A.A. will actually prevent future acts of violence against victims when abusers know evidence is likely to have been legally documented.

Problem: In Court, Testimony of Prior Abuse is Argued as ‘Hearsay’

A long standing hurdle in the cases of domestic violence and stalking where prior evidence does not exist, is the defense’s argument that family/friends allegations of pre-existing abuse is merely ‘hearsay’ and often dismissed as non-credible evidence. Hearsay is an out of court statement "offered for the truth of the matter asserted" and is not subject to cross-examination, typically because the speaker is unavailable.  Such statements are deemed unreliable because of the obvious fact that they can easily be fabricated and can not be tested through cross examination.

The 6th Amendment rights (for the abuser to be able to confront his witnesses) have been a death blow in the past to witness testimony in DV cases in which the victim is missing or dead.

Solution: E.A.A. as Pre-Existing Before The Fact Evidence

After-the-fact testimony on intimate partner violence and stalking is solved with the E.A.A. because it is recorded prior to the fact of testimony. It is prior evidence of pre-existing abuse before the onset of court action. The victim’s pre-recorded abuse testimony, and documented and notarized affidavits, are arguable under seeking admission of the testimony, not merely for the truth of the statement, but for a highly relevant other purpose. Victims often tell others about the abuse or stalking in case she goes missing or is harmed. The legal argument is focused on the effect the abuse had on the victim that impacted her enough to confess fear of death to someone else. Or when victims say “If anything happens to me, please take care for my children’ which offers dynamic impact and is comparable, in some ways, to a dying declaration. Portions of the affidavits of the E.A.A. are a notarized Last Will and Testament, which is a victim’s dying declaration.
Problem, In Court—The Perpetrators Rights to Confront Their Accusers 
The 6th amendment gives the accused the right to face their accuser and to argue the points of the accuser’s statement. There isn’t a person in the United States that doesn’t know that is their basic right. But what happens with the accuser is missing, in a coma, or dead? 6th amendment rights have been another legal hurdle for domestic violence victims who are no longer alive to tell what happened to them.

Courtwatch Brevard is an organization that tracks the effectiveness of judicial decisions in domestic violence cases. Below is an example of a 6th amendment and domestic violence case.

Giles v. California, 554 U.S. 353 (2008)
Facts of the Case
When Dwayne Giles was tried in state court for the murder of his ex- girlfriend, he claimed self-defense. Giles stated that he had heard her vow to hurt him and a friend, and that she had previously shot a man and threatened people with knives. The prosecution then introduced evidence of a conversation between Giles' ex-girlfriend and police in which she claimed that he had assaulted her and threatened to kill her. The district court eventually convicted Giles of murder.
On appeal, Giles argued that use of the police conversation violated his Sixth Amendment right to confront witnesses against him, namely, his deceased ex- girlfriend.
The California Supreme Court held that Giles had waived this right because he was the cause of his ex-girlfriend's absence. Although this exclusion was justified under common law rules of "forfeiture by wrongdoing", the Supreme Court had greatly constrained the admissibility of such evidence in its 2004 holding in Crawford v. Washington. Crawford essentially wiped out the admissibility of such out-of-court statements unless the testimony could be subject to cross-examination at trial, an option that would be impossible under these circumstances. This case gives the Court an opportunity to expand on its decision in Crawford and to apply it to a situation where the wrongdoing that kept the witness from appearing in court was not motivated by a desire to prevent the witness' testimony.
Question
Are a criminal defendant's rights under the Confrontation Clause of the Sixth Amendment violated when the common law "forfeiture by wrongdoing" doctrine is applied to allow out-of-court statements made by a witness, absent due to the defendant's own conduct, into evidence without giving defendant an opportunity to cross-examine the absent witness?
Conclusion
Yes. In a 6-3 decision, the Court held that the forfeiture by wrongdoing exception only applies to situations where the defendant causes the witness' absence with the intention of preventing that witness from testifying at trial. Without this intention, any act by the defendant making the witness unavailable does not waive that defendant's Sixth Amendment right to confront and cross-examine the witness, and therefore any out-of-court statements made by the witness are inadmissible as evidence. Justice Antonin Scalia delivered the opinion of the Court.
Justice Clarence Thomas wrote a concurring opinion stressing his belief that statements such as those made by the witness in this case should not implicate the Confrontation Clause at all because the police questioning was not a "formalized dialogue." Justice Samuel Alito also wrote a concurring opinion suggesting that the witness' statements, in his view, did not fall within the Confrontation Clause but noting that neither party had made this argument before the Court. Justice David Souter, joined by Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg, concurred in all parts of the majority opinion except one section denouncing the dissenting argument. Justice Souter stated that he did not find the dissent as wrongheaded as the majority suggested.
The dissent, written by Justice Stephen Breyer and joined by Justices John Paul Stevens and Anthony Kennedy, argued that a defendant loses his right to confrontation when he makes a witness unavailable due to his own wrongdoing, even if he did not act with the specific intention of preventing her from testifying at trial. (Used with permission of Courtwatch Brevard)

Solution: Proving Forfeiture with The E.A.A.
A pre-existing videotaped notarized testimony of a victim’s abuse would secure the forfeiture law in her case. The ability to link her disappearance through her testimony and evidence that she leaves behind, prevents the perpetrator from benefiting from her absence and the ability to testify. 
A Victim’s Case Example Where An E.A.A. Was Needed
Vashti Seacat, murdered by law enforcement officer husband
The couple had been married since 2004. During the marriage Vashti Seacat had given birth to a son in 2007 and another in 2009. Child support was ordered to be paid by a judge in the amount of $1,281 beginning on May 15, 2011.
Vashti Seacat had filed for divorce from her husband Brett Seacat just 16 days before a sudden fire on April 30th which caused heavy damage to the family home. Her husband at the time was employed as a police instructor at the Kansas Law Enforcement Training Center after a number of years with the Sedgwick County Sheriff’s Department. In the divorce papers a judge ordered Seacat out of the marital home within 24 hours of being served the papers however, he remained in the home despite the order to vacate.

The boys and their father would escape the blaze without injury but Vashti Seacat was not so lucky. She would not die as the result of the fire, but according to the medical examiner a gunshot wound to the head. The medical examiner was unable to determine whether the wound was self-inflicted because the entry wound was destroyed in the fire. Brett Seacat then easily made claims his soon to be ex-wife was “suicidal.”
Last week in court, after two long days of testimony, the judge decided there was enough to charge the former law enforcement officer with murder. He is being held on $1 million dollars bond and the next court date is schedule for January 6, 2012.
Tragically, this is an all too common with a case ending in murder. Vashti suffered constant abuse including threats to her life at the hands of her estranged husband. Vashti and her fears are now left to “hearsay” statements repeated by friends and relatives in the aftermath of her murder.

What should have happened but did not, was Vashti Secat could have prepared the Evidentiary Abuse Affidavit. She could have done this at the courthouse, therapist's office, or at a remote location to document the abuse. It would then be witnessed by two people and then it would have been notarized before video taping her own words about the abuse in the relationship and her fears of being killed. This would remove "hearsay" and any doubt that she feared for her life.

If you are considering ending a relationship, before you say the words out loud "it's over,” before you go to court and file for a protective order from the courts, and before you see an attorney, prepare the Evidentiary Abuse Affidavit.
With the E.A.A. your words will count and will account for your history of abuse. With the E.A.A. no one can try to claim you killed yourself or if you just happen to go missing, the E.A.A. will serve as your voice and the person responsible for your harm will be arrested.Benefits of The E.A.A.

The E.A.A. provides legal and evidentiary support to the issues of:

    *Historical Documentation for the timeline of her abuse
    *Proof of Stalking
    *Affidavits as Abusers Profile Documentation
    *Suggested Custody Placement
    *Possible Prevention of Future Acts of Violence By Perpetrator
    *Legal Defense Arguments of Hearsay




The new site Document the Abuse.Com contains vital information on how the EAA can support each case of abuse from the perspective of the first responders, prosecutors, family attorneys, victims and advocates, to an appearance in court.  


Susan Murphy Milano is a staff member of the Institute for Relational Harm Reduction and Public Pathology Education as a educator and specialist with intimate partner violence prevention strategies directing prevention for high risk situations and cases.
 A national trainer to law enforcement, training officers, prosecutors, judges, legislators, social service providers, healthcare professionals, victim advocates and the faith based community and author.. In partnership with Management Resources Ltd. of New York addressing prevention and solutions within the community to the workplace. Host of The Susan Murphy Milano Show,"Time'sUp!" . She is a regular contributor to the nationally syndicated "The Roth Show" with Dr Laurie Roth and a co-host onCrime Wire. Online contributions: Forbes : Crime, She Writesproviding commentary about the hottest topics on crime, justice, and law from a woman’s perspective, as well as Time's Up! a blog which searches for solutions (SOS) for victims of crime.
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